If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.
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Calling Out Bigotry: Derailing and "say it nice"
To all those who I see constantly harassing women to send their message with a cherry on top.
To all those who I see derailing a topic by demanding that someone spell it out for you, rather than doing the research yourself.
To all those who tone police, and assume that if someone is upset about something, that they can’t express this anger clearly.
READ THIS:
I am not here to coddle my oppressors
I am not here to be nice to my oppressors
I am not here to hand hold those who send me hate and threaten me
I am not here take it easy on people who hurt me
Stop telling me how to react, instead of telling them how to act
Stop blaming me for refusing to just take it
If you really think the victim is the person to blame, you’re part of the problem
Posted by me here.
No one has to be nice to their oppressors.
No one needs to talk softly and sugar coat things for their oppressors.
No one needs to provide a pointed list of arguments for their oppressors.
NO ONE NEEDS TO HOLD YOUR FUCKING HAND AND PLAY THE PATRIARCHAL “NICE WOMAN” ROLE WHEN EXPRESSING THEIR VALID FEELINGS ON A TOPIC.
And to all you who would dare demand that a woman is NICE when expressing her dislike for ANYTHING, why the FUCK do we never see you saying this to men?
Oh that’s right, because as the title implies, it’s not about whether a woman is right or wrong, it’s about derailing her and keeping her in her place.
Man + angrilly yelling about a valid topic = YEAH GET IT SHOW THEM WHAT’S UP.!
Woman + angrilly yelling about a valid topic = OMG YOU’RE SUCH A BITCH, MAYBE IF YOU WEREN’T ALL YELLY AND MAD PEOPLE WOULD LISTEN. STFU NO ONE EVEN CARES. GOD, THIS IS WHY PEOPLE HATE WOMEN. MAYBE IF YOU JUST EXPLAINED THINGS NICELY PEOPLE WOULD ACTUALLY GIVE A SHIT.
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have you ever had a dream that was so vivid it stuck with you in the back of your mind for years?
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I went jogging this morning and i noticed a guy was following me and i was so scared lmfao my heart was pounding and then he finally caught up to me and said “hey you dropped 50 bucks” and i took it and started running and while i’m running i’m laughing because the 50 dollars didn’t belong to me
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